We don't get worked up simply because someone lied to us, but mainly because we can no longer trust that person or anyone else after the bitter experience. It's the matter of a betrayal of trust and a violation of innocence that's absolutely irreparable.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

When I was growing up in India, I was taught that if you are gifted with special talents, you don't own them. Those talents aren't yours, because they come to you straight from God. I was further advised to use those God-gifted talents for advancing society, by helping people who're in dire need. It's one of the most powerful teachings that I've inherited from my childhood in India. It constantly reminds me that Life is a give-and-take process; and that the more you give back to society, the more you'll receive from God. This interesting philosophy of life instills humility, and keeps my feet firmly on the ground; no matter which country or continent I live in. And I am thankful to my parents, who guided me with such invaluable lessons of life.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

When Life throws you a curve ball, you've got to manage it very skillfully. So, focus and swing with full force like you never swung before. Hit those curve balls swiftly far into the stands or outfield right away. And run all the bases for a home run. It's your winning attitude and strong determination that will take you to the first, second, third or even home base, regardless of life pitching you curve balls. The key is to keep batting those curve balls and not to give up by throwing down the bat in defeat. You will come out the big winner, and all you'll hear is the cheers from the crowd. Cheers!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

I had worked at the University of St. Andrews, over 25 years ago during 1985-88, as an academic staff and a research fellow at the Department of Chemistry. Those were the most wonderful and highly productive three and half years of my life. I was fortunate to work in association with one of the genius Scientists in the UK (Professor David Cole-Hamilton) at the most beautiful place in the world, St. Andrews. My research work had led to various patents and publications, creating a notable mark of distinction that stll makes me extremely proud. University of St. Andrews is not only the oldest and highly prestigious University in the world, but also the Crème de la crème, best of the best, and cut above the rest! My Best Wishes from USA, to University of St. Andrews. Mòran taing, Alma Mater.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

Kudos to great American Heroes, whose patriotism is very well expressed in the last words of Nathan Hale, American Freedom-fighter: 'I only regret that I have but one life to lose for my country.' On Memorial Day, we remember and offer our heartfelt salute to all American Heroes and their Spirit of Patriotism! God Bless America! - Deo.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

There is a Royal Eagle in each one of us, who wishes to soar high despite the stormy winds of adversities and colossal challenges. As a matter of fact, the stormy winds strengthen the wings of Royal Eagle, and enable him to reach the greatest heights. We must let that free spirited Eagle rise and soar high; and we can be rest assured, he'll be the conqueror.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

It can be shown mathematically that only attitude will enable you to reach 100% towards your goal, the finish line where everything else, including skills or knowledge or hard work, cannot reach. If you assign the numbers to the letters A to Z as 1 to 26 respectively, and then add the corresponding numbers for the spellings of each word, you will get 63% for skill, 82% for skills, 96% for knowledge, 98% for hard work, and exact 100% for attitude. Math is really beautiful here, in my view, for it elucidates and illuminates the fact that good attitude can empower you reach your goals 100%.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

It's a misconception that we get older each year, when in fact we are getting newer and better each day and every moment. In my view, human mind is ageless with millions of corridors that lead to astounding creations and amazing inventions that are above and beyond the bounds of material wealth, and truly timeless. Enjoy the extraordinary process of getting newer each moment, which enriches you with beauty, experience and wisdom. Cheers to this moment, and many more yet to come!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

La meilleure façon de mieux vous-même est d'être en compagnie des meilleurs qui sont mieux que vous. Vous ne devez pas se sentir intimidés par les gens qui sont meilleurs que vous. à la place, vous devez les accueillir dans votre vie et être leurs élèves, dès que possible. La vie est très courte, mais elle est aussi un processus d'apprentissage impliquant l'amélioration continue.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

You will often meet people who will try to put you down, and tell you that your idea was the stupidest thing they had ever heard. You mustn't get discouraged by their dysfunctional critique. Instead, you must believe in yourself, because then only you can negate their negativity. In my view, nothing will change in your life unless and until you believe in yourself first, and think highly of yourself. If you have a low opinion of yourself, no one is going to raise it, and then you will live with status quo all your life. So believe in your Ambitions and Dreams, but most importantly: Believe In Yourself First - no matter what others say or do.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

It's better to have unapologetic honest truth than apologetic deceitful lies, any time and anywhere in the world, in my view.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

A Beautiful and Perfect thing is neither Beautiful nor Perfect at its outset. Beauty & Perfection are attained with enormous Efforts and extraordinary Endurance over time. Only after withstanding tremondous pressure and scorching heat for countless years, a Coal is able to transform into a beautiful sparkling Diamond. Always strive to be that dazzling Diamond, and never settle for anything less in Life.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

Inherent inertia and no deviation from status quo are the major show-stoppers in the advancement of art, science, and society in general. Inventors are the ones who break those barriers, and raise the humankind to next higher levels that exist above and beyond the status quo and comfort zones. When most of the people in the society are standing still with their feet in the gutters of status quo, Inventors and Innovators are the ones among that crowd who are always looking at the stars. We surely need millions of such star-gazers to advance our society further, to go above and beyond the limitations and stagnation. Long live the Inventors and their spirit of Invention!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

The best chapter in your book of life is always the one that's not written yet. Start writing it right away, with your own words and not the ones that get dictated to you by others. You're the only one who can fill those unwritten pages with enthusiasm, passion and dedication. So, take charge of your book of life, and don't ever rely on others who would be least interested in making it either exciting or outstanding. You're the Creator and the Master of your Destiny!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

Those who can't hear the music always laugh contemptuously at the dancing stars, thinking that those dancers must be crazy. You must ignore their mocking laughter, just kick off your shoes, and keep on dancing like there is nobody watching. "You're the Dancing Queen. You can dance, you can jive, having the time of your life." - as ᗅᗺᗷᗅ said it so appropriately. Never miss a chance to dance, and the last laugh will always be yours. Continuer danse, Danser étoile!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

We, as Humans, are distinct and unique in our capability to dream, and then strive to transform those Dreams into reality. The Dreams at night, seen with eyes wide shut, are nothing but illusions created by electronic impulses and waves within our brain and central nervous system. On the contrary, the Dreams seen in broad daylight, with our eyes wide open, are the most important ones, because we can pursue those diligently with total focus from our heart and mind, and soon make them come true in actuality. In my opinion, these Dreamers, Believers, Pursuers, Thinkers, Inventors, Innovators, Planners, Strategists, and Doers are the ones who change our world, and make it better and better than it was ever before. Our world needs billions and trillions of such Dreamers who will lead humanity to perfection. So, never let your Dreams fade away or die, especially those you've seen in the broad daylight, with eyes wide open. Go after your Dreams, relentlessly with perfect plan, passion and perseverance, no matter what others say or do. Good luck in making your Dreams come true.!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

Most of the positive things in life are often preceded by negativities - paradoxically! For example, we gain amazing strength only after realizing our weaknesses. We learn to love unconditionally only after experiencing the hate directed towards us. We become more tolerant and proponents of Equality only after the discrimination that world throws at us. We thus grow and mature with the flow of life, always negating the negativity, and moving upwards and onwards. - Deo

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

Smartphone is a classic example of disruptive innovation that has quickly disrupted not only the existing markets and value networks, but also our society and her values - by creating millions of Selfie-obsessed narcissistic individuals worldwide. Whether it's good or bad, Selfie-obsession has certainly become epidemic, and no one is immune. Social media, such as FB, Twitter, Instagram etc are totally flooded with selfies of self-obsessed folks from all walks of life, all strata of society, rich and poor, beautiful as well as beauty-challenged, celebrities as much as obscurities, and people of all colors, genders, races, religions and ethnicities etc. While 'Selfies’ may have become a huge trend in social media, many psychiatrists associate the Selfie-obsession to serious mental health issue called "Body Dysmorphic Disorder" that involves dysfunctional narcissism and person’s obsession with her/his looks. Thank you Smartphone! You're truly the most disruptive innovation of 21st Century!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

Some people believe that Silence is golden, and that Silence speaks a million words. In my view, it's not true. Silence often represents the remnants of your fears, flaws and insecurities. Silence signifies your inability and impotency to respond to reality. The saddest sounds of silence were heard loud and clear in the deepest darkness that followed Nazi Genocides, 9/11, Tsunami and Katrina. Silence isn't golden at all, and it surely comes back to haunt you. Stay away from Silence, and always dare to speak up your mind, so that life becomes smooth and seamlessly free-flowing. La Vie Continue!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

I like this brief and highly insightful advice, by Dr. Seuss, about anything that happens in life: 'Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.' Things change. Seasons change. Fashions change. People change. Everything passes. Familiar doors close and new doors open. Opportunity knocks, and circle of life goes on. Life moves on. Thus the beauty and the essence of Life can be summarized, IMHO, in just two words 'Life continues!' So, don't worry, be happy, and be in sync with ebbs and flows of life. Make it a good one!

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate

Il ya un point commun entre la beauté, la gloire et la puissance. Ils sont tous volage, et souvent décrit comme infidèle et frivole. Ils sont doux et chaud, quand ils vous permettent de monter en flèche haute. Ils ont froid et brutal, quand ils vous tombent des plus hauts sommets sans aucun avertissement. Ils vous déclenchent souvent lorsque vous s'y attend le moins. Imbeciles se hypnotisés par leur magie, tandis que les sages gérer intelligemment en gardant leurs pieds fermement sur le sol. Sage, et de ne jamais se laisser influencer par les charmes hypnotiques de la beauté, la gloire et la puissance.

Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate