What bothers you isn't so much whether you're beautiful or not. What bothers you is the way that people stare. Carole Bouquet More Quotes by Carole Bouquet More Quotes From Carole Bouquet Real elegance is simply a true encounter with oneself. Carole Bouquet elegance encounters real I didn't learn a lot from books. I learned a lot from movies. Carole Bouquet book Political debate is of no interest to me. What I want are practical solutions. Carole Bouquet debate political want Acting is our job, not talking about it. In France, they know me like I belong to their family. I go somewhere and I feel like Im sometimes the aunt, the grandmother, the mother, the sister. They all know me. But its not supposed to be that way. Carole Bouquet aunt mother jobs I did get offers from Hollywood, but they were all scripts with monsters in them. If I had done them, I would have disappeared. I would have come back to France anyway, and I would have had to start all over again and lost a lot of time. Carole Bouquet hollywood done monsters My characters always start well in movies. Almost every movie I've done starts with a happy marriage, it's all beautiful, wealthy, whatever... and then of course my husband leaves me, and everything falls apart. Carole Bouquet husband beautiful fall The first wine I drank, a Chateau Haut-Brion, I was 22, it was my first glass of wine, and I discovered voluptuousness. From there, I started tasting French wines, then Spanish wines, then Italian wines. Carole Bouquet glasses italian wine The problem with movies is that you see from the first day you're on a train, and if the movie is not going in the right direction you know it right away. Sometimes, you can't get off the train, and the whole experience is painful. Carole Bouquet painful problem sometimes With the turmoil, with the vicissitudes, with the pain we inflict on each other, love is possible. Sometimes the roads cross and it's worth doing it. Go for it, it's worth it. Carole Bouquet pain love-is sometimes Love is possible. Life is going to decide. Don't lose it, it's a treasure. It's going to be painful; it's going to be an adventure, a roller coaster. Life is a roller coaster and it gets worse when you get old. Contrary to what you think, that it gets better when you know more - no, the more you know the more painful it is. You've been hurt. You arrive with a million scars and your armor is not thick. The more you age, the more you're fragile. But do it anyway. Go for it. Otherwise it means death. Carole Bouquet hurt adventure mean At night, I love to look in the houses. When I was little, I did that much more, when I was so bored. It might be awful in those houses, of course, but I still speculate about them in a romantic way. It's the same if you are famous: you are in the light, and most people have fantasies about you, but these fantasies have nothing to do with reality. Carole Bouquet light night reality Wine is connected to abundance. Carole Bouquet abundance wine connected When you're young, all the accidents, all the pain you take them; but at least you're very strong. Carole Bouquet pain strong loss I'm attached to my land in Pantelleria as if I'd inherited it. Acting is my job, Pantelleria is my home. Carole Bouquet land home jobs A man can't pass on, like a mother could, an awareness of your body, or sensuality, or what it means to be a woman. I was never taught what femininity was. I learnt it - or rather I invented it - on my own. I tended not to talk at all, if people were staring at me. Carole Bouquet woman me man mother It's like a kitchen, acting. Put a chef in a kitchen and they will have different recipes. Whatever your recipe, what works for you won't work for another. Carole Bouquet you kitchen work chef You get stared at the whole time. I first noticed that when I was about 13. I was very shy. Being considered beautiful, I always felt that people were waiting for something more. I imagined you were supposed to have an intellectual ability - and I'm making no claims here - proportional to your supposed good looks. Carole Bouquet good waiting time beautiful People have to identify with their own stories, with their own lives, so a movie belongs to a country and to a culture. Sometimes we can share, but it's very rare. Carole Bouquet sometimes country culture people Of course when I started, it's not because I was such a brilliant actress. I didn't know I was good. I thought I was really bad. I was very shy. I was 18 and dreaming of becoming an actress. Carole Bouquet thought bad good shy I decided to be an actress, and the day after, I was an actress. That was quick and very scary at the same time. When 'Obscure Object of Desire' came out in France, I felt guilty for my friends at the National School who weren't in the movies. The whole thing was turmoil. Carole Bouquet day friends time school