What's interesting is that the way we go about finding our marriage partners today is quite different from the way it used to be in this culture. Sheena Iyengar More Quotes by Sheena Iyengar More Quotes From Sheena Iyengar When we speak of choice, what we mean is the ability to exercise control over ourselves and our environment. In order to choose, we must first perceive that control is possible. Sheena Iyengar exercise order mean Choice is more than picking 'x' over 'y.' It is a responsibility to separate the meaningful and the uplifting from the trivial and the disheartening. It is the only tool we have that enables us to go from who we are today to who we want to be tomorrow. Sheena Iyengar uplifting responsibility meaningful We have the ability to create choice by altering our interpretations of the world. Sheena Iyengar interpretation choices world When I do have choice I try to be very picky about... or shall I say choosey about when I choose. 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Sheena Iyengar practice order commitment People were actually 6 times more likely to buy a jar of jam if they had encountered 6 than if they encountered 24, so what we learned from this study was that while people were more attracted to having more options, that's what sort of got them in the door or got them to think about jam, when it came to choosing time they were actually less likely to make a choice if they had more to choose from than if they had fewer to choose from. Sheena Iyengar doors people thinking [Americans] think that choice, as seen through the American lens, best fulfills an innate and universal desire for choice in all humans. Unfortunately, these beliefs are based on assumptions that don't always hold true in many countries, in many cultures. Sheena Iyengar motivation inspiration country If we ask for more and more material for the construction, i.e. more and more choice, we're likely to end up with a lot of combinations that don't do much for us or are far more complex than they need to be. Sheena Iyengar construction choices needs We began to look at "Why is that?" And a large part of that has to do with the fact that when people have a lot of options to choose from they don't know how to tell them apart. They don't know how to keep track of them. Sheena Iyengar track people looks In reality, many choices are between things that are not that much different. The value of choice depends on our ability to perceive differences between the options. Sheena Iyengar differences choices reality
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