What you have when everyone wears the same playclothes for all occasions, is addressad by nickname, expected to participate in Show And Tell, and bullied out of any desire form privacy, is not democracy; it is kindergarten. Judith Martin, (Miss Manners) More Quotes by Judith Martin, (Miss Manners) More Quotes From Judith Martin, (Miss Manners) There are three social classes in America: upper middle class, middle class, and lower middle class. Judith Martin, (Miss Manners) We are all born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participate in society. Judith Martin, (Miss Manners)