When a person acts without knowledge of what he thinks, feels, needs or wants, he does not yet have the option of choosing to act differently. Clark Moustakas More Quotes by Clark Moustakas More Quotes From Clark Moustakas We can help a person to be himself by our own willingness to steep ourselves temporarily in his world, in his private feelings and experiences. By our affirmation of the person as he is, we give him support and strength to take the next step in his own growth. Clark Moustakas being-yourself strength change Creative life is always based on the values of the self, not on the values of the system. Clark Moustakas creative self life-is A paradox arises: the only way to meaning in freedom is through boundaries. The only way that boundaries make any sense at all is through freedom. Clark Moustakas existential boundaries way The individual increasingly comes to know who he is through the stand he takes when he expresses his ideas, values, beliefs, and convictions, and through the declaration and ownership of his feelings. Clark Moustakas individuality feelings ideas You can at any time decide to alter the course of your life; no one can take that away. Clark Moustakas courses When we are not honest, we are cut off from a significant resource of ourselves, a vital dimension that is necessary for unity and wholeness. Clark Moustakas unity cutting honesty Viewing the child solely as an immature person is a way of escaping comforting him. Clark Moustakas escaping comforting children A compassionate willingess is required - as is the courage to live before the fact, before the understanding, before any rational support or certainty, to live the moment to its natural peak and conclusion, and to accept with dignity whatever joy, grief, misfortune, or unexpectedness occurs. Clark Moustakas support grief joy The most dramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between men but between a man and himself - where the arena of conflict is a solitary mind. Clark Moustakas arena mind men
