Yes, you can get a man to do just about anything, and you know it. So, what are you going to attract him into doing? Buying you a nice house? Giving you the space to guide your own life? Or, offering his deepest gifts to you and all beings while opening his heart to God?

David Deida

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Make your own decision, based on your deepest intuitive wisdom and knowledge. You may make the right decision or the wrong one, but whatever happens, it is your best shot, and you will strengthen your capacity for future action.

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You can open to God through sex. By learning to open your heart and body while embracing and trusting all energies from rough ravishment to sublime gentleness, you can open to be lived by the mystery that lives the entire universe. You can open to be lived by love with no limits, so you are alive as love, offering the deepest gifts of your heart spontaneously and without hesitation, in every moment, at work, with your family and friends, as well as in bed with your lover.

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Live with your lips pressed against your fears, kissing your fears, neither pulling back nor aggressively violating them.

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You'll never get what you really want. All you can do is give wha... by David Deida

You'll never get what you really want. All you can do is give what you really want!

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The positive and negative poles of a battery create an electrical flow. The masculine and feminine poles between people create a flow of sexual energy in motion.

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Masculine and feminine aspects exist in all beings. by David Deida

Masculine and feminine aspects exist in all beings.

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The only way to live free, the only way to live your life as an offering of love, is to feel everything fully and live open.

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In any given moment, a man's growth is optimized if he leans just beyond his edge, his capacity, his fear. He should not be too lazy, happily stagnating in the zone of security and comfort. Nor should he push far beyond his edge, stressing himself unnecessarily, unable to metabolize his experience. He should lean just slightly beyond the edge of fear and discomfort. Constantly. In everything he does.

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Your heart knows the truth of openness and suffers the tense lie... by David Deida

Your heart knows the truth of openness and suffers the tense lie of your closure.

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Violence is always an effort toward greater freedom or love. Openness is freedom and love. Even the most violent or self-destructive emotions are rooted in the heart's need for openness, to be free, to give and receive love.

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A man with a weak Masculine is especially prone to despise and fear these qualities and may attempt to suppress the more destructive elements of the Feminine force in his partner.

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We eventually learn that emotional closure is our own action. We can be responsible for it. In any moment, we can choose to open or to close.

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We're here to learn how to worship consciousness and radiance, evoke it in each other, and tolerate nothing less than our deepest love.

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When fear dissolves, you no longer separate yourself from this single flow of immense force. Love is continuity with infinite life force, a Oneness of being with no separation. Love is the key to opening to this flow of life force.

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Whatever is your present experience, you can recognize the spaciousness that allows it to be. You are this spaciousness, this awareness, this love. Deeper love and more spacious awareness is the best lesson you can get from any experience.

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You are not only a man, you are a superior man: a man who does his best to live as love in the world and in his intimacy, a man whose heart remains open and whose truth remains strong.

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We must see that we are afraid of the thing we most desire, by David Deida

We must see that we are afraid of the thing we most desire,

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Your suffering is shaped exactly by your refusal to open. by David Deida

Your suffering is shaped exactly by your refusal to open.

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Your close men friends should be willing to challenge your mediocrity by suggesting a concrete action you can perform that will pop you out of your rut, one way or the other. And you must be willing to offer them your brutal honesty, in the same way, if you are all to grow.

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Instant enlightenment is to give all your happiness away to other... by David Deida

Instant enlightenment is to give all your happiness away to others.

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