You cannot control what happens to you in life, but you can always control what you will feel and do about what happens to you. Harold S. Kushner More Quotes by Harold S. Kushner More Quotes From Harold S. Kushner Our souls are not hungry for fame, comfort, wealth, or power. Our souls are hungry for meaning, for the sense that we have figured out how to live so that our lives matter. Harold S. Kushner soulmattercomfort God does not cause our misfortunes. Some are caused by bad luck, some are caused by bad people, and some are simply an inevitable consequence of our being human and being mortal. living in a world of inflexible natural laws. The painful things that happen to us are not punishments for our misbehavior, nor are they in any way part of some grand design on God's part. Because the tragedy is not God's will, we need not feel hurt or betrayed by God when tragedy strikes. We can turn to Him for help in overcoming it, precisely because we can tell ourselves that God is as outraged by it as we are. Harold S. Kushner hurthealinglaw People who pray for miracles usually don't get miracles. But people who pray for courage, for strength to bear the unbearable, for the grace to remember what they have left instead of what they have lost, very often find their prayers answered. Their prayers help them tap hidden reserves of faith and courage that were not available to them before. Harold S. Kushner miracleprayerpeople Is there an answer to the question of why bad things happen to good people?...The response would be…to forgive the world for not being perfect, to forgive God for not making a better world, to reach out to the people around us, and to go on living despite it all…no longer asking why something happened, but asking how we will respond, what we intend to do now that it has happened. Harold S. Kushner asking-whyperfectpeople The purpose in life is not to win. The purpose in life is to grow and to share. "When you come to look back on all that you have done in life, you will get more satisfaction from the pleasure you have brought into other people's lives than you will from the times that you outdid and defeated them. Harold S. Kushner winningmotivationalinspirational Do things for people not because of who they are or what they do in return, but because of who you are. Harold S. Kushner returngrowthpeople At some of the darkest moments in my life, some people I thought of as friends deserted me-some because they cared about me and it hurt them to see me in pain; others because I reminded them of their own vulnerability, and that was more than they could handle. But real friends overcame their discomfort and came to sit with me. If they had not words to make me feel better, they sat in silence (much better than saying, "You'll get over it," or "It's not so bad; others have it worse") and I loved them for it. Harold S. Kushner painrealhurt If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul Harold S. Kushner thankfulthank-youlife The happiest people I know are people who don't even think about being happy. They just think about being good neighbors, good people. And then happiness sort of sneaks in the back window while they are busy doing good. Harold S. Kushner happinessinspirationalthinking God is the light shining in the midst of darkness, not to deny that there is darkness in the world but to reassure us that we do not have to be afraid of the darkness because darkness will always yield to light. As theologian David Griffin puts in, God is all-powerful, His power enables people to deal with events beyond their control and He gives us the strength to do those things because He is with us. Harold S. Kushner yieldpowerfullight Integrity means being whole, unbroken, undivided. It describes a person who has united the different parts of his or her personality, so there is no longer a split in the soul ... For the person of integrity, life may not be easy but it is simple: Figure out what is right and do it. All other considerations come in second. Harold S. Kushner simpleintegritymean When you are kind to others, it not only changes you, it changes the world. Harold S. Kushner changekindnessworld The soul is not a physical entity, but instead refers to everything about us that is not physical - our values, memories, identity, sense of humor. Since the soul represents the parts of the human being that are not physical, it cannot get sick, it cannot die, it cannot disappear. In short, the soul is immortal. Harold S. Kushner sicksoulmemories But at the end, if we are brave enough to love, if we are strong enough to forgive, if we are generous enough to rejoice in another's happiness, and if we are wise enough to know that there is enough love to go around for us all, then we can achieve a fulfillment that no other living creature will ever know, we can reenter paradise. Harold S. Kushner strongbravewise When your life is filled with the desire to see the holiness in everyday life, something magical happens: Ordinary life becomes extraordinary, and the very process of life begins to nourish your soul. Harold S. Kushner godlysoulspiritual We can endure much more than we think we can; all human experience testifies to that. All we need to do is learn not to be afraid of pain. Grit your teeth and let it hurt. Don't deny it, don't be overwhelmed by it. It will not last forever. One day, the pain will be gone and you will still be there. Harold S. Kushner paingriefhurt We are here to change the world with small acts of thoughtfulness done daily rather than with one great breakthrough. Harold S. Kushner small-actsdoneworld In all my years of counselling those near death, I've yet to hear anyone say they wish they had spent more time at the office Harold S. Kushner balanceofficeyears You don't become happy by pursuing happiness. You become happy by living a life that means something. Harold S. Kushner pursuing-happinesssadnessmean What cannot be achieved in one lifetime will happen when one lifetime is joined to another. Harold S. Kushner achievementcommunitytime
