You don't find out who you are unless you work at it. Iris Apfel More Quotes by Iris Apfel More Quotes From Iris Apfel I never felt pretty. I don't feel pretty now. I'm not a pretty person. I don't like pretty. So I don't feel badly. And I think it worked out well, because I found that all the girls I know who got by on their looks, as time went on and they faded, they were nothing. And they were very disappointed. When you're somebody like myself, in order to get around and be attractive, you have to develop something, you have to learn something, you have to do something. So you become a bit more interesting. Iris Apfel girlorderthinking Fashion you can buy, but style you possess. The key to style is learning who you are, which takes years. There’s no how-to road map to style. It’s about self-expression and, above all, attitude. Iris Apfel fashionkeysattitude I say, dress to please yourself. Listen to your inner muse and take a chance. Wear something that says 'Here I am!' today. Iris Apfel confidencefashionhere-i-am When you don't dress like everybody else, you don't have to think like everybody else. Iris Apfel fashioninspiringthinking You're not pretty, and you'll never be pretty. But, it doesn't matter. You have something much better. You have style. Iris Apfel not-prettystylematter If you don’t learn constantly, you don’t grow and you will wither. Too many people wither on the vine. Sure, it gets a little harder as you get older, but new experiences and new challenges keep it fresh. Iris Apfel new-experienceschallengespeople I don't have any rules, because I would only be breaking them, so it's a waste of time Iris Apfel wasting-timewaste I don't pay attention to things like the talent for style. I don't meditate on things like that. I just do whatever I think I should do and go with it, and if people like it, then I'm very happy about it. And if not, I always figure it's their problem not mine. Iris Apfel stylepeoplethinking More is more and less is a bore. Iris Apfel boresfashion You have to be interested. If you're not interested, you can't be interesting. Iris Apfel not-interestedifsinteresting I don’t care what people think…I learned a long time ago…I was 19 and had a very traumatic experience….and I learned that I have to go to bed with myself at night and that I have to please myself…and as long as I don’t go out of my way to offend anybody that I love, upset my mother or my husband…I’ll do my own thing. And if the public doesn’t like it, it’s their problem, not mine. Iris Apfel husbandmothernight I’m a hopeless romantic. I buy things because I fall in love with them. I never buy anything just because it’s valuable. My husband used to say I look at a piece of fabric and listen to the threads. It tells me a story. It sings me a song. I have to get a physical reaction when I buy something. A coup de foudre – a bolt of lightning. It’s fun to get knocked out that way! Iris Apfel falling-in-lovesongfun If you're lucky enough to get old, I think you should celebrate it. Iris Apfel luckypositivethinking If you can't be pretty, you have to learn to make yourself attractive. I found that all the pretty girls I went to high school with came to middle age as frumps, because they just got by with their pretty faces, so they never developed anything. They never learned how to be interesting. But if you are bereft of certain things, you have to make up for them in certain ways. Don't you think? Iris Apfel girlschoolthinking I was never hurt by what anybody said about my clothes, because I dress to please myself. If somebody doesn’t like what I’m wearing, it’s their problem, not mine Iris Apfel clotheshurtdresses If you hair is done properly and you're wearing good shoes, you can get anyway with anything. Iris Apfel hairbeautylife You only have one trip. You might as well enjoy it. Iris Apfel wellsenjoymight I think jewelry can change an outfit more than anything else. Transformation, punch, individuality: One or all of the above are why you should wear jewelry. Iris Apfel jewelryindividualitythinking You have to look in the mirror and see yourself. If it feels good, then I know it's for me. I don't dress to be stared at, I dress for myself. Iris Apfel feel-goodmirrorsdresses You don’t have to look like an old fuddy-duddy, but I believe it was Chanel who said, ‘Nothing makes a woman look so old as trying desperately hard to look young’. I think you can be attractive at any age. I think trying to look like a spring chicken when you’re not makes you look ridiculous. Iris Apfel springbelievethinking
