You don't have to want death in order to prepare for it. Nancy Mairs More Quotes by Nancy Mairs More Quotes From Nancy Mairs Who one believes God to be is most accurately revealed not in any credo but in the way one speaks to God when no one else is listening. Nancy Mairs prayer listening believe physical disability looms pretty large in one's life. But it doesn't devour one wholly. I'm not, for instance, Ms. MS, a walking, talking embodiment of a chronic incurable degenerative disease. Nancy Mairs embodiment disease talking Poor and afflicted and oppressed people have faces, and we are required to look squarely into them. We can't love what we won't experience. Nancy Mairs poverty people looks God is no White Knight who charges into the world to pluck us like distressed damsels from the jaws of dragons, or diseases. God chooses to become present to and through us. It is up to us to rescue one another. Nancy Mairs dragons knights god I felt permanently exiled from 'normality.' Whether imposed by self or society, this outsider status - and not the disability itself - constitutes the most daunting barrier for most people with physical impairments, because it, even more than flights of steps or elevators without braille, prevents them from participating fully in the ordinary world, where most of life's satisfactions dwell. Nancy Mairs ordinary-world self people God enters the world through those of us who are willing to let God participate fully in our lives. Nancy Mairs angel letting-go world I will write myself into well-being. Nancy Mairs well-being diaries writing people who seem most hostile to my presence are those most fearful of my fate. And since their fear keeps them emotionally distant from me, they are the ones least likely to learn that my life isn't half so dismal as they assume. Nancy Mairs fate half people From the moment of birth, at every level, human beings who are more alike than different become polarized into two absolutely exclusive classes with very different and ill-distributed symbolic powers. Nancy Mairs different class two The fact is that ours is the only minority you can join involuntarily, without warning, at any time. And if you live long enough, as you're increasingly likely to do, you may well join it. Nancy Mairs minorities warning long To view your life as blessed does not require you to deny your pain. It simply demands a more complicated vision, one in which a condition or event is not either good or bad but is, rather, both good and bad, not sequentially, but simultaneously. Nancy Mairs pain blessed views In a society that prates about, but seldom practices, communication, the craving to be listened to, heard, understood - which originates with the first terrified wail, the circling arms, the breast, the consolatory murmur - is hard to assuage. Nancy Mairs communication practice listening My writing arises out of erotic impulse toward an other: it is an act of love. And I want terribly to be loved in return, as a sign that I have loved well enough. Nancy Mairs erotic want writing no one expects all impediments to be miraculously whisked away. In insisting that others view our lives as ample and precious, we are not demanding that they be made perfect. ... If it is both possible and pleasant for me and my kind to enter, the world will become a livelier place. You'll see. Nancy Mairs views perfect world Through its prohibition on birth control, the Church has suggested that the only right way to have children is through biological reproduction: a kind of forced labor culminating in the production of another soul for God. What kind of a God stands like Lee Iacocca at the end of an assembly line, driving his workers with a greedy 'More! More!' while the automobiles pile up in showrooms and on freeways and in used-car lots and finally junkyards, his only satisfaction the gross production figures at the end of every quarter? Nancy Mairs car soul children If the very thought of taking off all your clothes in the middle of the Washington Mall during a school holiday makes you blush, you haven't even begun to dream what it feels like to publish a book. Nancy Mairs dream book school One of the blessings that comes with parental territory is that children tug you into experiences you're pretty sure you'd never otherwise contemplate. Nancy Mairs territory blessing children The charity that begins at home cannot rest there but draws one inexorably over the threshold and off the porch and down the street and so out and out and out and out into the world which becomes the home wherein charity begins until it becomes possible, in theory at least, to love the whole of creation with the same patience, affection, and amusement one first practiced, in between the pouts and tantrums, with parents, siblings, spouse, and children. Nancy Mairs sibling home children That's the trouble with honorable mentions: they let everyone know you applied and didn't win. Nancy Mairs irony trouble winning Atlas Shrugged and The Fountainhead, doubtless two of the most exquisitely adolescent of fictions. Nancy Mairs atlas two fiction
