You don't want to get rid of your experiences, because they're your experiences - good or bad - and you need them, but it would be great if they weren't on the video shelf! Jennifer Connelly More Quotes by Jennifer Connelly More Quotes From Jennifer Connelly If you get too attached to how you want it to come out the other side, you freeze. I try to trust that it will work out in the end. Jennifer Connelly trust work-out trying I don't always like my own behavior. I haven't known anyone who is perfect all the time. Jennifer Connelly my-own behavior perfect You can't predict what someone else is going to do and when someone else is going to leave Jennifer Connelly I try to stay focused on my life and do try not to be brought into the Hollywood fantasy. Jennifer Connelly fantasy hollywood trying Growing up, being watched from the outside... it's kind of very taxing and maybe I should just do some kind of manual labor-it might be more relaxing. But I can't, it's not in my nature. Jennifer Connelly growing-up kind might I have a thing about honesty; I think it's crucial to a relationship. Otherwise, one person holds all the power. It's healthy to be straightforward, and it turns out you can wind up weathering a lot. Knowing that everything is on the table - what you see is what you get - lends a sense of safety. Jennifer Connelly honesty wind thinking I felt for a long time that this is what I want to do so I'm happy at this point to just take my time and work on projects that I feel strongly about, and the rest of the time just live my life Jennifer Connelly living-my-life want long I didn't expect to win the Oscar. You grow up watching the Oscars on TV and you think it happens to fancy people. It was really surreal Jennifer Connelly growing-up winning thinking We're blessed to be worrying about the silly things that we worry about when people are worrying about where they are going to sleep, and what they are going to feed their kids every day. Jennifer Connelly blessed sleep silly People who are incapable of having any kind of intimate relationship have to turn to feeling this incredible hunger and void, have to turn to some quantifiable external product to make them feel whole. Jennifer Connelly intimate-relationships feelings people I feel more comfortable in my own skin now than I ever have...I think there's something about loving Kai [her son] so much, in a way that I've never loved anyone, including myself. Also, I used to spend a lot of time alone, but he's this incredibly social kind of guy, so all of a sudden I'm always having people in and out of my house. It's changed the way I feel as a citizen of the world. And it's really important to me to feel good about what I'm working on, to justify the number of hours I'd have to be away from him. Jennifer Connelly motherhood son thinking I had to stand in front of my refrigerator, which was open, dipping pretzels in cream cheese and stuffing them in my mouth. If I did that, I was good. Otherwise I was nauseous. Jennifer Connelly refrigerators cheese mouths It's funny looking at yourself. You know how it is when you look back at old pictures? It's just funny looking back at yourself walking and talking at age 14 Jennifer Connelly age talking looks That's a great feeling to know that I'm going into a project that I have no idea what will become of that movie, but I really trust Ang Lee. And I really trusted Ron. It's just really nice to work with people that you feel that way about. Jennifer Connelly trust-no-one nice ideas It's so hard to keep perspective and keep things in context, and it's so easy to get distracted. This film [Shelter] reminded me how important it is to remain aware, and to keep seeing the things that are happening around the world. Jennifer Connelly perspective important world Dark Water was one of my favourite films to shoot because of Walter. 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I found myself questioning absolutely everything: how I spend my time, how I speak, what kind of projects I work on, how I look at the world. Jennifer Connelly motherhood mean thinking
