You have your whole life ahead of you. Be smart. Study hard and be independent. I'm afraid the chances of your getting a dowry are slim. You must rely on yourself. No matter what else people may steal from you, they will never be able to take away your knowledge. The world is changing. You must make your own life outside this home.

Adeline Yen Mah

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Revenge is not worthy of you. If you concentrate on revenge, you will keep those wounds fresh that would otherwise have healed.

Adeline Yen Mah

payback revenge healing

Transcend your abuse and transform it into a source of courage, c... by Adeline Yen Mah

Transcend your abuse and transform it into a source of courage, creativity and compassion.

Adeline Yen Mah

abuse creativity compassion

I read because I have to. It drives everything else from my mind. It lets me escape to find other world.

Adeline Yen Mah

other-worlds mind world

She was bedridden falling a fall which broke her hip. X-rays showed that she had cancer of the colon which had already spreed. To my surprise I found her cheerful and free of pain, perhaps because of the small doses of morphine she was being given. She was surrounded by neighbours and friends who congregated at her bedside day and night. In this cosy, noisy, gregarious world of the "all-chinese" sickbed, so different from the stark, sterile solitude of the American hospital room, her life had assumed the astounding quality of a continuous farewell party.

Adeline Yen Mah

cancer pain farewell

Please believe that one single positive dream is more important t... by Adeline Yen Mah

Please believe that one single positive dream is more important than a thousand negative realities.

Adeline Yen Mah

dream believe reality

You may be right in believing that if you study hard, one day you might become fluent in English. But you will still look Chinese, and when people meet you, they’ll see a Chinese girl no matter how well you speak English. You’ll always be expected to know Chinese, and if you don’t, I’m afraid they will not respect you as much.

Adeline Yen Mah

speak-english girl believe

Don't trust anyone. Be a cold fish. I hurt no one. And no one can... by Adeline Yen Mah

Don't trust anyone. Be a cold fish. I hurt no one. And no one can hurt me.

Adeline Yen Mah

cold hurt life

People with yuan fen are destined to like one another; Friendship develops even if a thousand miles apart. But should yuan fen be absent between two individuals, They will remain strangers despite sitting face-to-face

Adeline Yen Mah

sitting two people

Keep in mind that whenever you are in a crisis, you are in the midst of danger as well as opportunity.

Adeline Yen Mah

danger mind opportunity

Suen Le! (it means, "Let it be. by Adeline Yen Mah

Suen Le! (it means, "Let it be.

Adeline Yen Mah

mean

At the age of three my grand aunt proclaimed her independence by categorically refusing to have her feet bound, resolutely tearing off the bandages as fast as they were applied.

Adeline Yen Mah

aunt independence feet

But you can vanquish the demons only when you yourself are convin... by Adeline Yen Mah

But you can vanquish the demons only when you yourself are convinced of your own worth.

Adeline Yen Mah

convinced vanquish demon

The future belongs to you. Should anyone insult you, tell yourself this: I am a child of destiny who will unite East and West and change the world.

Adeline Yen Mah

insults-you destiny children