Zen Hugs - the hugs that you would get, if we were there, if we could hug you, but we aren't, and we can't. Mercedes Lackey More Quotes by Mercedes Lackey More Quotes From Mercedes Lackey Adventure, yeah. I guess that's what you call it when everybody comes back alive. Mercedes Lackey yeah alive adventure If only. Those must be the two saddest words in the world. Mercedes Lackey sadness regret love Honor was never taking the easy way when it was also the wrong one. Never telling a falsehood unless the truth was painful and unnecessary, or a lie was necessary to save others. Never manipulating the truth to serve only yourself. Protecting the weak and helpless; standing fast even when fear made you weak. Keeping your word. Mercedes Lackey honor lying way Doctor MacKenzie says "Sometimes I think the Victorians had the right idea. When you lost a family member back then you were suppose to be in full mourning, dress in nothing but black, for a whole year. Then you went into something they called 'half mourning' for another full year, adn during those two years, you were pretty much expected to have emotional breakdowns, you could do it whenever you felt you needed to, and everybody would support you. Now?, A month after a tragedy, maybe two, and you're expected to be all better-or down pills so you can pretend you are. Mercedes Lackey support-you emotional thinking The great love is gone. There are still little loves - friend to friend, brother to sister, student to teacher. Will you deny yourself comfort at the hearthfire of a cottage because you may no longer sit by the fireplace of a palace? Will you deny yourself to those who reach out to you in hopes of warming themselves at your hearthfire? Mercedes Lackey lost-love brother teacher There’s no such thing as `one, true way’; the only answers worth having are the ones you find for yourself; leave the world better than you found it. Love, freedom, and the chance to do some good — they’re the things worth living and dying for, and if you aren’t willing to die for the things worth living for, you might as well turn in your membership in the human race. Mercedes Lackey dying race answers Getting angry over something that won't change is like seeing what happens if you hit your hand with a hammer over and over again, and being surprised each time when it hurts. So you might as well stop doing it. Mercedes Lackey hammers hurt hands Give your enemy a face, If he is human, do not dehumanize him. Know him and know why he is your enemy. If your enemy is within you, understand what it is and why you are afraid. Put a face on your fear. When you understand it, and it is no longer vague and shapeless, you will find that your fear is no longer so formidable. Mercedes Lackey courage fear giving It's just as easy to be lonely in a city as out in the wilderness. Easier, really. It's harder to get to know someone when you meet in a crowded place. People can freely ignore you in the city; they can assume they don't have any responsibility for you. When there are fewer people, (...) they begin assuming some kind of responsibility, simply because you naturally do the same. Mercedes Lackey lonely cities responsibility We're none of us quite so sure of our place in the world that we can't be rocked off our feet by bad times. It's the getting back up again that counts. Not that you fall, but getting back up again counts for more in the long run. Mercedes Lackey getting-back-up running fall Three things trust and cherish well- The horse on which you ride, The beast that guards and watches, And your shield-mate at your side. Mercedes Lackey your-side horse watches This I think I have learned: where there is love, the form does not matter, and the gods are pleased. This I have observed: what occurs in nature, comes by the hand of nature, and if the gods did not approve, it would not be there ~ Moondance k'Treva (Magic's Pawn) Mercedes Lackey magic hands thinking It's only gossip if you repeat it. Until then, it's gathering information. Mercedes Lackey gossip information gathering Fanatics can justify practically any atrocity to themselves. The more untenable their position becomes, the harder they hold to it, and the worse the things they are willing to do to support it. Mercedes Lackey harder atrocities support Some must be warriors, that others may live in peace. Mercedes Lackey warrior may I'm not a legend or a hero, I don't slay dragons, I don't do any of the things that a real hero can. But I can make things better, one day at a time, for most of the kingdom. Mercedes Lackey dragons real hero When warriors feel afraid they lack something, it is only because they are forgetful. They have forgotten how capable they truly are. Mercedes Lackey forgetful warrior forgotten Change or stagnate. Keep moving or die. Mercedes Lackey keep-moving dies moving Assume the attitude of prayer, and in time, the attitude will become prayer. Mercedes Lackey assuming prayer attitude It isn't wise to be rude to one's mother. She knows everything about your childhood that is potentially embarassing. Mercedes Lackey childhood wise mother
