Charles A. Stoddard Browse All Authors Famous Quotes by Charles A. Stoddard We love in others what we lack ourselves, and would be everything but what we are. Charles A. Stoddard When we can say "no" not only to things that are wrong and sinful, but also to things pleasant, profitable, and good which would hinder and clog our grand duties and our chief work, we shall understand more fully what life is worth, and how to make the most of it. Charles A. Stoddard