Candy Lightner Born : May 30, 1946 Browse All Authors Top 4 quotes by Candy Lightner The road through grief is a rocky one. Traveling along it requires courage, patience, wisdom, and hope. Candy Lightner grief I didn't start MADD to deal with alcohol. I started MADD to deal with the issue of drunk driving. Candy Lightner issuesdrunkalcohol Death by drink driving is the only socially acceptable form of homicide. Candy Lightner drinkdrivingmurder Talking about your feeling with someone who is willing to listen can be enormously consoling, especially if that person has experienced a death similar to the one you are grieving. Candy Lightner griefgrievingtalking