Gary Chapman Professions : Author Born : January 10, 1938 Browse All Authors Top 132 quotes by Gary Chapman Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage. Gary Chapman more-time preparation people Others who openly discuss matters of spirituality often ignore the warning signs. They are so in love with each other, enjoy being with each other, and can see themselves making each other happy for the rest of their lives, and they close their eyes to huge differences in their views of spirituality. Gary Chapman differences eye views A soft answer turns away anger. Gary Chapman turns answers Expressing love in the right language. We tend to speak our own love language, to express love to others in a language that would make us feel loved. But if it is not his/her primary love language, it will not mean to them what it would mean to us. Gary Chapman language speak mean We cannot rely on our native tongue if our spouse does not understand it. If we want them to feel the love we are trying to communicate, we must express it in his or her primary love language. Gary Chapman doe want trying A child may be "spoiled" by a lack of training or by inappropriate love that gives or trains incorrectly. Gary Chapman training giving children The in-love experience does not focus on our own growth or on the growth and development of the other person. Rather, it gives us the sense that we have arrived and that we do not need further growth. Gary Chapman growth focus giving Good marriages are built upon a combination of emotional love and a common commitment to a core of beliefs about what is important in life and what we wish to do with our lives. Speaking each other's primary love language creates the emotional climate where these beliefs can be fleshed out in daily life. Gary Chapman emotional wish commitment I would encourage you to make your own investigation of the one whom, as He died, prayed for those who killed Him: 'Father forgive them for they know not what they do.' That is love's ultimate expression. Gary Chapman forgiving expression father I think that in today's world, by nature, we are all self-centered. And that often leads to selfishness. Gary Chapman self world thinking The human race could not go on without reproduction, and marriage creates the most secure environment in which to raise children. Gary Chapman environment marriage race children There were only two things I knew in a Christian framework that I could do. One would be the pastor of a church, the other would be a missionary. I didn't particularly like snakes, so I decided I should probably be a pastor. Gary Chapman things like church christian The fastest way to have a loving, supportive, understanding spouse is to become a loving, supportive, understanding spouse. Gary Chapman loving become understanding way If you are sitting on the couch with the TV off, and you are looking into each other's eyes and talking, that is quality time - so is taking a walk or going out to eat, so long as you are communicating with each other. Gary Chapman walk eyes you time That is the idea that good Christians don't talk about sex, at least not out loud, and certainly not in the church. I want to say that both of those ideas are fallacious. Gary Chapman good church sex ideas Sex was invented by God. Gary Chapman invented god sex As a senior in high school, I had a strong sense that God wanted me in some kind of ministry. Gary Chapman me strong god school When you're married, the person you would most like to love you is your spouse. And if you feel loved by your spouse, the world looks bright. But if the love tank is empty, and you don't feel loved by your spouse, the world begins to look dark. Gary Chapman look you love world In reality, relationships that are successful tend to take the attitude, 'How can I help you?' 'How can I enrich your life?' 'How can I be a better husband to you,' if it's a marriage. Gary Chapman you marriage attitude life It was God's idea to make us male and female. And God's the one that instituted marriage. Gary Chapman us make marriage god Similar Authors F. E. Marsh author Iimani David author Beatrice Faust author Isabella Macdonald Alden author Isabella Beeton author Alan AtKisson author All Authors