Quotes by Codependent in all codependent relationships, the rescuer needs the victim as much as the victim needs the rescuer. Barbara De Angelis codependent victim needs Being codependent means that when you die, someone else's life passes before your eyes. Barbara Johnson codependent eye mean What we see changes what we know. What we know changes what we see. Jean Piaget codependent knows A codependent person is one who has let another person's behavior affect him or her and who is obsessed with controlling that person's behavior. Melody Beattie codependent obsessed behavior Being married, I would say most relationships are pretty codependent in some ways. Rene Russo codependent married way If you are alive and conscious, you are probably codependent. Susan Juby codependent alive conscious