Quotes by Restitution To love without need or without expectation of restitution, that is how we ought to love. Criss Jami restitution expectations needs Forgiveness is created by the restitution of the abuser; of the wrongdoer. It is not something to be squeeeeeezed out of the victim in a further act of conscience-corrupting abuse. Stefan Molyneux restitution abuse victim Forgiveness is possible even when there is no restitution, no remorse on the part of the perpetrator. Virginia H. Pearce restitution perpetrators remorse