Quotes by Yellow Sun You must never behave as if your life belongs to a man. Do you hear me?' Aunty Ifeka said. 'Your life belongs to you and you alone. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie yellow-sun said men There are some things that are so unforgivable that they make other things easily forgivable. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie yellow-sun unforgivable Your life belongs to you and you alone. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie feeling-stuck yellow-sun Then she wished, more rationally, that she could love him without needing him. Need gave him power without his trying; need was the choicelessness she often felt around him. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie yellow-sun trying needs