I'm a big fan of having clients experiment, like, one month try to have sex twice a week and see how that goes, or once a week, try to play around with it. Vanessa Marin More Quotes by Vanessa Marin More Quotes From Vanessa Marin For some couples, scheduling sex works really well, it gives them something to look forward to, they like the anticipation, they like feeling prioritized, then other couples (say) scheduling sex feels horrible to them, like sex is transactional and just another item on their to-do list. Vanessa Marin top-news Most couples want to be having more sex and I think this is really a result of how busy and full most of our lives are. Vanessa Marin top-news