If you knew how important you are, you would fragment into a billion pieces and just be light. Byron Katie More Quotes by Byron Katie More Quotes From Byron Katie Who would you be without the thought that happiness depends on someone else? Byron Katie depends happiness There are no physical problems-only Byron Katie problem It's only our story that keeps us from knowing that we always have everything we need. Byron Katie knowing winning needs You don't have to feel bad to act kindly. Love doesn't stand by, it moves with the speed of clarity. Byron Katie clarity speed moving Identify your painful thought, question it, and wake yourself up. No one else can. Byron Katie painful-thoughts painful As you inquire into issues and turn judgments around, you come to see that every perceived problem appearing "out there" is really nothing more than a misperception within your own thinking. Byron Katie issues perception thinking I realized that it's insane to oppose it. When I argue with reality, I lose-but only 100% of the time. How do I know that the wind should blow? It's blowing! Byron Katie blow winning time The Work is four questions and a turnaround. The Work is a way to identify and question the thoughts that cause all the suffering and violence in the world. The Work is a very, very simple process. It's for anyone who can answer a question that is willing to. It takes a bit of willingness and an open mind. Byron Katie simple suffering mind When you don't believe something, you can't make yourself believe it. There's nothing you can do to believe it again. You either believe it or you don't. Byron Katie dont-believe can-do believe I love to not defend ever and to open my mind and take in what can always add to me, not take away from me. Byron Katie mind add Low self-esteem is not possible when you understand the nature of everything. Depression is not possible. The universe is absolutely friendly. Byron Katie self-esteem friendly lows There is no peace in the world until you find peace within yourself in this moment. Byron Katie finding-peace moments world The power of one! If I can't stop war in my life, how can I expect politicians to stop war in the world? I can't. And we all have equal wisdom, so if I can do it then I know that anyone can do it if their mind is open to answering just four simple questions and beginning there. Byron Katie simple mind war If I say, if I talk about, 'I want to be enlightened...' it implies a future. And there isn't any. Byron Katie future want reality Nothing can cost you someone you love. The only thing that can cost you your husband is if you believe a thought. That's how you move away from him. That's how the marriage ends. You are one with your husband until you believe the thought that he should look a certain way, he should give you something, he should be something other than what he is. That's how you divorce him. Right then and there you have lost your marriage. Byron Katie marriage family love Just because we love someone, we begin to notice that love is an experience and we have to do something with it. We don't have to marry people or date them because we care about them very deeply. It's an experience. Byron Katie care love-is people The ultimate and dearest - and, again, only - relationship we have is the relationship we have with our thoughts. Byron Katie our-thoughts ultimate I have a list of universal beliefs, and they are amazing beliefs, like, "No one cares" or "You don't care about me"; "I should be successful" or "I'm not successful"; "I don't have enough money"; "I'm too tall or thin or fat"; "I shouldn't have done it" - oh, my goodness, they go on and on and on. Byron Katie lists care successful Look at your life without the thought "Something terrible is going to happen." Byron Katie terrible happens looks What I say and what I'm really experiencing - those universes are very different. Byron Katie universe different