It used to be that children had time to look at clouds and imagine. Daniel Goleman More Quotes by Daniel Goleman More Quotes From Daniel Goleman Even though a high IQ is no guarantee of prosperity, prestige, Daniel Goleman destinyemotionalschool Happy, calm children learn best Daniel Goleman calmclassroomchildren A prerequisite to empathy is simply paying attention to the person in pain. Daniel Goleman empathypainattention People learn what they want to learn. If learning is forced on us, even if we master it temporarily, it is soon forgotten. Daniel Goleman passionlearningpeople Worries typically follow such lines, a narrative to oneself that jumps from concern to concern and more often than not includes catastrophizing, imagining some terrible tragedy. Worries are almost always expressed in the mind's ear, not its eye - that is, in words, not images - a fact that has significance for controlling worry. Daniel Goleman eyemindworry The more time you put into practicing, then, the greater the payoff. Daniel Goleman practicemotivationalsports What seems to set apart those at the very top of competitive pursuits from others of roughly equal ability is the degree to which, beginning early in life, they can pursue an arduous practice routine for years and years. Daniel Goleman degreespracticeyears The near cousin of optimism is hope: knowing the steps needed to get to a goal and having the energy to pursue those steps. It is a primal motivating force, and its absence is paralyzing. Daniel Goleman cousinoptimismknowing Western business people often don't get the importance of establishing human relationships. Daniel Goleman importancewesternpeople Positive work environments outperform negative work environments. Daniel Goleman positive-workbeing-positivenegative Remember, empathy need not lead to sympathetically giving in to the other side’s demands—knowing how someone feels does not mean agreeing with them. Daniel Goleman knowinggivingmean Threats to our standing in the eyes of others are remarkably potent biologically, almost as powerful as those to our very survival. Daniel Goleman survivalpowerfuleye Risk taking and the drive to pursue innovative ideas are the fuel that stokes the entrepreneurial spirit. Daniel Goleman fuelriskideas As a freshman in college, I was having a lot of trouble adjusting. I took a meditation class to handle anxiety. It really helped. Then as a grad student at Harvard, I was awarded a pre-doctoral traveling fellowship to India, where my focus was on the ancient systems of psychology and meditation practices of Asia. Daniel Goleman meditation-practicecollegeclass The amygdala in the emotional center sees and hears everything that occurs to us instantaneously and is the trigger point for the fight or flight response. Daniel Goleman flightemotionalfighting Every morning, I go off to a small studio behind my house to write. I try to ignore all email and phone calls until lunchtime. Then I launch into the sometimes frantic busy-ness of a tightly scheduled day. Daniel Goleman phoneswritingmorning Motivation aside, if people get better at these life skills, everyone benefits: The brain doesn't distinguish between being a more empathic manager and a more empathic father. Daniel Goleman skillsmotivationalfather Daydreaming defeats practice; those of us who browse TV while working out will never reach the top ranks. Paying full attention seems to boost the mind's processing speed, strengthen synaptic connections, and expand or create neural networks for what we are practicing. Daniel Goleman work-outpracticemotivational The people we get along with, trust, feel simpatico with, are the strongest links in our networks Daniel Goleman simpaticolinkspeople Who does not recall school at least in part as endless dreary hours of boredom punctuated by moments of high anxiety? Daniel Goleman boredomanxietyschool
