People fall in love more easily when they are already troubled by another emotion because we know that any intense emotional state greatly increases the risk of falling in love. François Lelord More Quotes by François Lelord More Quotes From François Lelord Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story. François Lelord knowingstoriessometimes He who spends too long regretting his ruined crop will be neglect to plant next year's harvest. François Lelord regretlongyears It is love that transports us, that fills us with joy! Love turns life into one long adventure, every encounter is a dazzling experience - well, not always, of course, but in actual fact, it is our less successful love affairs that enable us to appreciate the others. I think love protects us from one of the biggest problems facing the modern world: boredom. François Lelord successfuladventurethinking Nobody wants to live with a person who'll never be happy. François Lelord personswant Lesson no. 17: Happiness is caring about the happiness of those you love. François Lelord searching-for-happinesslessonscaring Knowing and feeling are two different things, and feeling is what counts. François Lelord knowingfeelingstwo Happiness often comes when least expected. François Lelord hectorsearching-for-happinessexpected Many people think that happiness comes from having more power or more money. François Lelord more-moneypeoplethinking It's one thing thinking something and another thing knowing it. François Lelord one-thingknowingthinking We fall in love or stay in love with people who are unsuitable or who no longer love us and, conversely, we feel no love towards people who would be very suitable. Love is involuntary, that's the problem. Our personal histories prepare us to be attracted to people who unconsciously evoke emotions from our childhood or adolescence. François Lelord falling-in-lovelove-ispeople Happiness. We're tearing our hair out to try to find a definition of it, for heaven's sake. Is it joy? People will tell you that it isn't, that joy is a fleeting emotion, a moment of happiness, which is always welcome, mind you. And then what about pleasure, huh? Oh, yes, that's easy, everybody knows what that is, but there again it doesn't last. But is happiness not the sum total of lots of small joys and pleasures, huh? François Lelord hairjoypeople Be vary wary of people who declare that they're going to create heaven on earth, they almost invariably create hell. François Lelord earthheavenpeople And, like poor Phaedra, we fall in love not with who we want to fall in love with, but with one who moves us, and sometimes it is the last person we should fall in love with. Our involuntary choice is not always the right one, and sometimes it is actually the worst one, hence our suffering. And then, of course, there is the completely different situation of the loving people where, over the years, the love they once felt for each other fades and they can't go on. They feel their love dying, but are unable to bring it back to life. François Lelord loving-lifefalling-in-lovemoving You must be careful when you ask people whether they’re happy; it’s a question that can upset them a great deal. François Lelord upsetbe-carefulpeople Many people see happiness only in their future. François Lelord people The basic mistake people make is to think that happiness is the goal! François Lelord mistakepeoplethinking Making comparisons can spoil your happiness. François Lelord hectorsearching-for-happinessspoil Eros is not tranquil-it gives us spikes of happiness rather than a constant feeling of wellbeing. It's the love we feel at the beginning of a love affair and corresponds to the expression 'falling in love' since it is as involuntary an impulse as a physical fall. François Lelord falling-in-loveexpressiongiving
