The basic mistake people make is to think that happiness is the goal! François Lelord More Quotes by François Lelord More Quotes From François Lelord Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story. François Lelord knowing stories sometimes He who spends too long regretting his ruined crop will be neglect to plant next year's harvest. François Lelord regret long years It is love that transports us, that fills us with joy! Love turns life into one long adventure, every encounter is a dazzling experience - well, not always, of course, but in actual fact, it is our less successful love affairs that enable us to appreciate the others. I think love protects us from one of the biggest problems facing the modern world: boredom. François Lelord successful adventure thinking Nobody wants to live with a person who'll never be happy. François Lelord persons want Lesson no. 17: Happiness is caring about the happiness of those you love. François Lelord searching-for-happiness lessons caring Knowing and feeling are two different things, and feeling is what counts. François Lelord knowing feelings two Happiness often comes when least expected. François Lelord hector searching-for-happiness expected Many people think that happiness comes from having more power or more money. François Lelord more-money people thinking It's one thing thinking something and another thing knowing it. François Lelord one-thing knowing thinking We fall in love or stay in love with people who are unsuitable or who no longer love us and, conversely, we feel no love towards people who would be very suitable. Love is involuntary, that's the problem. Our personal histories prepare us to be attracted to people who unconsciously evoke emotions from our childhood or adolescence. François Lelord falling-in-love love-is people Happiness. We're tearing our hair out to try to find a definition of it, for heaven's sake. Is it joy? People will tell you that it isn't, that joy is a fleeting emotion, a moment of happiness, which is always welcome, mind you. And then what about pleasure, huh? Oh, yes, that's easy, everybody knows what that is, but there again it doesn't last. But is happiness not the sum total of lots of small joys and pleasures, huh? François Lelord hair joy people People fall in love more easily when they are already troubled by another emotion because we know that any intense emotional state greatly increases the risk of falling in love. François Lelord falling-in-love emotional people Be vary wary of people who declare that they're going to create heaven on earth, they almost invariably create hell. François Lelord earth heaven people And, like poor Phaedra, we fall in love not with who we want to fall in love with, but with one who moves us, and sometimes it is the last person we should fall in love with. Our involuntary choice is not always the right one, and sometimes it is actually the worst one, hence our suffering. And then, of course, there is the completely different situation of the loving people where, over the years, the love they once felt for each other fades and they can't go on. They feel their love dying, but are unable to bring it back to life. François Lelord loving-life falling-in-love moving You must be careful when you ask people whether they’re happy; it’s a question that can upset them a great deal. François Lelord upset be-careful people Many people see happiness only in their future. François Lelord people Making comparisons can spoil your happiness. François Lelord hector searching-for-happiness spoil Eros is not tranquil-it gives us spikes of happiness rather than a constant feeling of wellbeing. It's the love we feel at the beginning of a love affair and corresponds to the expression 'falling in love' since it is as involuntary an impulse as a physical fall. François Lelord falling-in-love expression giving
