The flip side of suicide is that it leaves a lingering question in the minds of the people who survived. Its like a cancer thats metastasized. The suicide is the cancer and the metastasis is all these people saying, Why? Why? Why? Abraham Verghese More Quotes by Abraham Verghese More Quotes From Abraham Verghese Wasn't that the definition of home? Not where you are from, but where you are wanted Abraham Verghese where-you-are definitions home I think we learn from medicine everywhere that it is, at its heart, a human endeavor, requiring good science but also a limitless curiosity and interest in your fellow human being, and that the physician-patient relationship is key; all else follows from it. Abraham Verghese keys heart thinking What we need in medical schools is not to teach empathy, as much as to preserve it. The process of learning huge volumes of information about disease, of learning a specialised language, can ironically make one lose sight of the patient one came to serve; empathy can be replaced by cynicism. Abraham Verghese empathy sight school Tell us please, what treatment in an emergency is administered by ear?"....I met his gaze and I did not blink. "Words of comfort," I said to my father. Abraham Verghese ears comfort father You are an instrument of God. Don't leave the instrument sitting in its case, my son. Play! Leave no part of your instrument unexplored. Why settle for 'Three Blind Mice' when you can can play the 'Gloria'? No, not Bach's 'Gloria.' Yours! Your 'Gloria' lives within you. The greatest sin is not finding it, ignoring what God made possible in you. Abraham Verghese three play son Though I am fascinated by knowledge, I am even more fascinated by wisdom. Abraham Verghese fascinated We come unbidden into this life, and if we are lucky we find a purpose beyond starvation, misery, and early death which, lest we forget, is the common lot. I grew up and I found my purpose and it was to become a physician. My intent wasn't to save the world as much as to heal myself. Few doctors will admit this, certainly not young ones, but subconsciously, in entering the profession, we must believe that ministering to others will heal our woundedness. And it can. but it can also deepen the wound. Abraham Verghese physicians doctors believe In writing, as in medicine, there are no short cuts. You need stamina. Abraham Verghese medicine cutting writing The most important innovation in medicine to come in the next 10 years: the power of the human hand. Abraham Verghese motivation inspiration hands I was taking care of people my age who were dying. The constant feeling, hearing from them, was that life is transient and can end very quickly, so don't postpone your dreams. Abraham Verghese dream feelings people The key to your happiness is to own your slippers, own who you are, own how you look, own your family, own the talents you have, and own the ones you don't. If you keep saying your slippers aren't yours, then you'll die searching, you'll die bitter, always feeling you were promised more. Not only our actions, but also our omissions, become our destiny. Abraham Verghese destiny keys motivational Students undergo a conversion in the third year of medical school - not pre-clinical to clinical, but pre-cynical to cynical. Abraham Verghese cynical years school A rich man's faults are covered with money, but a surgeon's faults are covered with earth. Abraham Verghese faults earth men This is my life, I thought...I have excised the cancer from my past, cut it out; I have crossed the high plains, descended into the desert, traversed oceans, and planted my feet in new soil; I have been the apprentice, paid my dues, and have just become master of my ship. But when I look down, why do I see the ancient, tarred, mud-stained slippers that I buried at the start of the journey still stuck to my feet? Abraham Verghese cancer cutting ocean We know the average American physician interrupts their patient in 14 seconds. Abraham Verghese healthcare physicians average You live it forward, but understand it backward. Abraham Verghese inspire life What treatment in an emergency is administered by ear? Abraham Verghese treatment emergencies ears There is a point when grief exceeds the human capacity to emote, and as a result one is strangely composed- Abraham Verghese results grief capacity Patients know in a heartbeat if they're getting a clumsy exam. Abraham Verghese heartbeat exam patient She died chasing greatness and never saw it each time it was in her hand, so she kept seeking it elsewhere, but never understood the work required to get it or to keep it. Abraham Verghese saws greatness hands
