There's a big line on what you can and can’t do, what you can and can’t say to these kids rather than whenever I was growing up, i would say (back then): ‘OK, you say that. I’m pissed off but I’m going to do my work.' Now it’s like, I’ve even told the other girls: ‘Don’t take it to heart. They don’t mean to say that to you. So just let it roll off your shoulder.'.