Whenever someone says the words 'Our friendship is more important than this,' watch out, because it almost never is. Nora Ephron More Quotes by Nora Ephron More Quotes From Nora Ephron I buy a lot of cookbooks. Some of them you just kind of read, and you try one recipe, and it doesn't really work. So then you don't go back to it. The new Ina Garten cookbook, which is called 'Back to Basics,' I have not had a failure with. It is the most fantastic cookbook. I think I bought 20 copies of it for friends. Nora Ephron you friends failure work I feel really bad for people who aren't insane over food. Nora Ephron feel bad food people I don't have writer's block, really. I do have times when I can't get the lead, and that is the only part of the story which I have serious trouble with. I don't write a word of the article until I have the lead. It just sets the whole tone - the whole point of view. Nora Ephron view story serious trouble I have been forgetting things for years - at least since I was in my 30s. I know this because I wrote something about it at the time; I have proof. Of course I can't remember exactly where I wrote about it or when, but I could probably hunt it up if I had to. Nora Ephron things know time remember Writing is what I do. It's like breathing to me at a certain point, but if I couldn't write, I do like cooking. Nora Ephron like me cooking writing All I do when I write scripts is think about food: 'Have I worked long enough to justify a walk to the kitchen?' Nora Ephron walk think food long Here are some questions I am constantly fretting over: Do you splurge, or do you hoard? Do you live every day as if it's your last, or do you save your money on the chance you'll live 20 more years? Is life too short, or is it going to be too long? Nora Ephron i-am day money life I just bring a black turtleneck sweater everywhere - it's the greatest purchase of my life. Period. Nora Ephron sweater my-life black life I use those medical gloves that fit very tightly and are disposable for all chopping - peppers, onions, garlic, etc. Very Lady Macbeth, I think. Nora Ephron i-think lady think medical Nothing like mashed potatoes when you're feeling blue. Nothing like getting into bed with a bowl of hot mashed potatoes already loaded with butter, and methodically adding a thin, cold slice of butter to every forkful. Nora Ephron feeling you hot blue I survived turning 60, I was not thrilled to turn 61, I was less thrilled to turn 62, I didn't much like being 63, I loathed being 64, and I will hate being 65. I don't let on about such things in person; in person, I am cheerful and Pollyanna-ish. But the honest truth is that it's sad to be over 60. Nora Ephron i-am sad hate truth E-mail is a whole new way of being friends with people: intimate but not, chatty but not, communicative but not; in short, friends but not. What a breakthrough. How did we ever live without it? I have more to say on this subject, but I have to answer an instant message from someone I almost know. Nora Ephron live friends people way When we were working on 'Julie & Julia,' I went back to the Julia Child cookbook and made some things I haven't made in a while, one being beef bourguignon, which to me is a hilariously 1960s dish that everyone felt they had to serve at a dinner party or they weren't a grown-up. Nora Ephron back child me dinner I have now been married to my third husband for more than 20 years. But when you've had children with someone you're divorced from, divorce defines everything; it's the lurking fact, a slice of anger in the pie of your brain. Nora Ephron you anger brain children My second divorce was the worst kind of divorce. There were two children; one had just been born. My husband was in love with someone else. Nora Ephron born husband love children