You have to stand up and say, 'There's nothing wrong with me or my shape or who I am; you're the one with the problem!' Jennifer Lopez More Quotes by Jennifer Lopez More Quotes From Jennifer Lopez When you have children, you realise you can't plan anything. There's no Plan A, no Plan B. Life will happen and you will go with it. Jennifer Lopez plan-b plans children I am positive - determined to move forward with my life, bring up my babies, and do the best job I can as a mother, entertainer, and person. Jennifer Lopez mother baby jobs I do know a lot about Scientology. And I know about the practices. I know all about what the technology is and all that kind of stuff. It's very helpful. Jennifer Lopez technology practice stuff A romantic comedy has to be funny and make you think about life; but the obstacle that has to be overcome is key. Jennifer Lopez romantic funny thinking Some people are naturally thin, and some are heavier. There is a lot of focus on it, and it can be a lot of pressure for people. But honestly, I think as long as someone is healthy, that is most important. Jennifer Lopez long people thinking He wouldn't talk to me for two months. I was like, 'What an ass**le.' Actors are used to getting their way and to treating women like objects. "[on Wesley Snipes after she reports he made unreturned passes at her] Jennifer Lopez actors two way I had such a reputation, and it was sad because I felt like it so didn't represent who I really was. Jennifer Lopez reputation felt All of a sudden one day I was like, I'm good at this! Oh, man! People are not giving me jobs because they feel sorry for me! I am an actress. I am a singer. I am a performer. That's what I do! Once I started giving myself a little credit, the whole world opened up. Jennifer Lopez sorry jobs men In my mind I first felt like, Oh, I'll be back to work right after the babies are born. But then you don't want to. Even now, it's very difficult for me to leave them in the morning. It just tortures me. I'm like, It's been hours; are they wondering where I am? Do they know that I love them so much and I'm thinking only about them? Jennifer Lopez morning baby thinking Whenever it feels uncomfortable to tell the truth, that's often the most important time to tell it. Jennifer Lopez uncomfortable telling-the-truth important But from the time I was very little, it was something I would do all the time, just sing, dance and act. So it wasn't something that was fake or contrived as I got older. Jennifer Lopez fake-people dance inspirational I think the best partner for you is someone who makes you want to be the best form of yourself. Jennifer Lopez being-the-best thinking Change your way of thinking, change your way of doing, change your way of choosing. Jennifer Lopez thinking I'm very comfortable with being productive. I like doing things, and I like creating things. As far as being powerful, I guess I'm comfortable with it. It's not really how I think of myself. Jennifer Lopez productive powerful thinking The minute I feel nervousness or anxiety or fear, I go, 'No, no, that's not a thought that I need to have right now. Everything's great, everything's good, you're going to be fine'. Jennifer Lopez nervousness anxiety When it's easy, it's great. But when something bad happens is when you really learn. It causes self-examination, it causes you to take a look at yourself. You naturally start analyzing. It's not that you're wrong; it's that sometimes you just need to make adjustments. Jennifer Lopez look-at-yourself easy sometimes When we graduated from college and law school, we had a mountain of debt. Jennifer Lopez college law school Anybody who's had children knows this feeling of deep love. It's a selfless love, an unconditional love. And it makes you kind of examine everything that has happened. Jennifer Lopez deep-love unconditional-love children I remember listening to an interview with Beyonce and she talked about how she and her husband, Jay-Z, have always made it a point to have the conversation about them be about their music, not about their business, not about their personal business. Jennifer Lopez interviews husband listening Obviously, throughout my career, I've always felt like certain things come to me at the right time. When I look at the work that I've done, it's always very indicative of where I was in my life at the moment. Jennifer Lopez careers done looks