You might believe that it's only for their own good, but how does it feel when you try to manipulate the people you love? Are you teaching them that your love is conditional? Maybe through inquiry we can find another way. Byron Katie More Quotes by Byron Katie More Quotes From Byron Katie Thought the mind can justify itself faster than the speed of light, it can be stopped through the act of writing. Byron Katie light mind writing War that I have anywhere in my life should stop. Byron Katie should war Realizing that people should lie when they do makes me a little more open-minded, a little more tolerant, when my child or my partner lies. Byron Katie lying children people Everyone has equal wisdom. It is absolutely equally distributed. No one is wiser than anyone else. Byron Katie wiser equal The only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with what is. When the mind is perfectly clear, what is is what we want. Byron Katie perfect believe reality To argue with reality is to argue with God Byron Katie arguing reality Every mind deserves to be free. Byron Katie deserve mind The world is as you perceive it to be. For me, clarity is a word for beauty. It’s what I am. And when I’m clear, I see only beauty. Nothing else is possible. Byron Katie clarity clear world It's not a little thing to lose your identification and who you believe yourself to be. Byron Katie little-things littles believe Sleep just gives the ego a little time out. It has to stay strong in order to be something that it isn't. Byron Katie stay-strong sleep order The mind is so tricky. It will say, "No one cares. Is it true? Well, someone does. Let's see: So-and-so doesn't care. Well, maybe they do. Well, there is someone who doesn't care." It just shifts and shifts and shifts, so it can keep all of its concepts intact. Byron Katie care mind doe An uncomfortable feeling is not an enemy. It's a gift that says, "Get honest; inquire." We reach out for alcohol, or television, or credit cards, so we can focus out there and not have to look at the feeling. And that's as it should be, because in our innocence we haven't known how. So now what we can do is reach out for a paper and a pencil, write thought down, and investigate. Byron Katie uncomfortable-feeling honesty writing The Work is merely four questions; it's not even a thing. It has no motive, no strings. It's nothing without your answers. These four questions will join any program you've got and enhance it. Any religion you have - they'll enhance it. If you have no religion, they will bring you joy. And they'll burn up anything that isn't true for you. They'll burn through to the reality that has always been waiting. Byron Katie waiting joy reality The only difference between heaven and hell is believing a thought. Byron Katie differences heaven believe The opening to reality, as it really is, is beauty. Byron Katie opening beauty reality When you srgue with reality, you lose, but only 100% of the time. Byron Katie katie love reality Who would you be if you didn't believe this lie? Byron Katie ifs believe lying It's for each of us to look at what we really do believe - what our belief system really consists of. Byron Katie belief believe looks Being present means living without control and always having your needs met. Byron Katie live-in-the-moment mean needs Fear is blind. There are some options in it, but they're very limited as compared to the options available to the fearless mind. Byron Katie fearless blind mind