On a deeper level, if our sons are learning they are obscene, disgusting, and untrustworthy, is this the best preparation for fatherhood? And is it the best preparation for becoming a mother - to feel this way about her son? Warren Farrell More Quotes by Warren Farrell More Quotes From Warren Farrell Choosing safety is a choice of life over career. Warren Farrell safety careers choices In our society, the sound of men complaining is like nails on a chalkboard. Warren Farrell nails sound men So long as you create laws that define women as victims, as creatures that demand protection, that need bodyguards, you are going to perpetuate the very worst of our sexist past. Warren Farrell law long past People who work 44 hours per week make 50 percent more than people who work 34 hours a week. Warren Farrell hours week people Women and men look at their life, and women say, What do I need? Do I need more money, or do I need more time? And women are intelligent enough to say, I need more time. And so, women lead balanced lives; men should be learning from women. Warren Farrell intelligent men needs Ive always been motivated to stop people from doing dysfunctional things. Warren Farrell motivated people The average full-time working male works more than a full-time working female. Warren Farrell males female average Fear of emotional contact with men out of fear of being a sexual suspect makes boys, ironically, even more powerless before girls. Homophobia is like telling the United States it will be a sissy nation if it doesn't get all its oil from OPEC. Warren Farrell girl men boys When a parent denies a child its parent time, that parent is denying the child its child support - its psychological child support. Warren Farrell support parent children On an unconscious level, the demonization of sexuality usually implies the demonization of males and the victimization of females. Warren Farrell males female levels It is ironic that a movement that made its reputation championing the irrelevance of biological differences when those differences were to most women's disadvantage immediately returned to biological determinism when those differences were to the most women's advantage. Warren Farrell irrelevance ironic differences Visitation reflects the era of the absentee father; parent time influences the re-emergence of the involved father. Visitation reflects the destruction of the family; parent time influences the reconstruction of the family. Parent time influences an era that understands that as either parent loses, so lose the children. Warren Farrell parent father children Our focus on discrimination against women during the past 30 years has blinded us to opportunities for women. Warren Farrell opportunity past years After years of research, I discovered 25 differences in the work-life choices of men and women. All 25 lead to men earning more money, but to women having better lives. Warren Farrell differences men years A person working 45 hours per week averages 44% more income than someone working 40 hours per week. That's 44% more income for 13% more time. Warren Farrell income week average People who get higher pay are more willing to relocate--especially to undesirable locations at the company's behest... A corporate secretary may change companies in the same town; a corporate executive is more likely to change towns with the same company. A talented corporate secretary sees an invitation to relocate as an invitation; a future corporate executive sees an invitation to relocate as an opportunity--and an obligation. Warren Farrell getting-high opportunity people Men make more money but have lower net worths. Warren Farrell net-worth more-money men A lot of young men are frustrated and looking for someone to blame. Warren Farrell blame frustrated men Nobody has said to men, It is OK if you want to be a full-time dad; find a woman who will support you. Warren Farrell support-you dad men Women's greater social desirability and beauty power afford opportunities for creating both measurable and invisible income. While the opportunities are available to almost all women and some men, they are available in abundance to the genetic celebrity ... a woman so beautiful that men do more than look and talk--they follow her. Warren Farrell opportunity beautiful men
