On a deeper level, if our sons are learning they are obscene, disgusting, and untrustworthy, is this the best preparation for fatherhood? And is it the best preparation for becoming a mother - to feel this way about her son?

Warren Farrell

Categorized in : Son Mother Preparation

Just as the Depression left a generation of dads feeling they never had enough money, so father deprivation is leaving a generation of sons and daughters with different psychic wounds.

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When a dad admits he is wrong or asks for help, he allows the child to see him- or herself as adequate even when she or he is also wrong. It encourages children to make suggestions and, therefore, to discover their creativity because they have a chance of making a contribution.

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Framework, (...) addiction to female beauty and sex; deprivation of the beautiful woman and sex with her until the man guarantees economic security in return; (.

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With men, we blame the victim. We blame men because we have camouflaged men's victimization by teaching men to also be the victimizer. Men's victimizer status camouflages men's victim status.

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Women's vulnerability confessing their desire to see men as a success object is matched by men's confession of compulsiveness of sexual desire for women.

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Our choice of partners is one of the clearest statements about ou... by Warren Farrell

Our choice of partners is one of the clearest statements about our choice of values.

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The five different areas in which boys are in crisis - education; jobs; emotional health; physical health; and fatherlessness - are handled by different portions of the government.

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Feminists have confused opportunity with outcome. by Warren Farrell

Feminists have confused opportunity with outcome.

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Letting men die is a money-saving device. Safety costs money as one safety official put it, 'When everything is hurry, hurry, hurry, when you start pressuring people and taking shortcuts, things can go wrong. And then people die.' No. And then men die.

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It is important that a woman’s “noes” be respected and her “yeses... by Warren Farrell

It is important that a woman’s “noes” be respected and her “yeses” be respected.

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Men are fair, and they have learned not to personalize anger - they can disagree with you and argue to the bone, but afterward they still consider you a nice person with whom the underlying human relationship need not be altered.

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If women really earned fifty-nine cents to the dollar for the same work as men, what business could compete effectively by hiring men at any level?

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And we reduce almost all male-female problems by working on both the female and the male. And that usually means having both sexes take responsibility.

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You could make a case that women addicted men to their sexuality and then withdrew their sexuality until we provided them with a source of income.

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Men's competitive team sports focus on the balance between individual achievement and team achievement with the emphasis on team achievement.

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And then in 1956 or 1957 my family went over to Europe and I moved over with them, and immediately people in Europe thought my perspective on that issue was 100% correct.

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So we've moved from an era when women's biology was women's destiny to today, which is an era in which men's biology is men's destiny.

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Male bashing is everywhere. It would be a mistake to view the current situation as another skirmish in the war between the sexes. Women have been doing the shooting, and men have been burying their heads in the sand, hoping the bullets will miss.

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I started to get very well recognized in the early seventies as the only man in the United States who had been elected three times to the board of NOW in New York City.

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My wife's income allowed me to do what I really loved. I realized that women's liberation is men's liberation, too.

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