On a deeper level, if our sons are learning they are obscene, disgusting, and untrustworthy, is this the best preparation for fatherhood? And is it the best preparation for becoming a mother - to feel this way about her son? Warren Farrell More Quotes by Warren Farrell More Quotes From Warren Farrell Men have not stacked the decks against women. Warren Farrell deck men Men are likely to be quite generous, especially financially. Warren Farrell generous men Let's face it: men do a lot of things in the workplace that women just don't do. Warren Farrell workplace faces men A man perceives himself as owning and being owned by a woman. Warren Farrell perceive men The only men who aren't in fear of women's reactions are usually men who aren't born or who are dead. Warren Farrell reactions born men Our main reasons for fearing males having sex with males is that you really had to construct a more powerful social role to keep men in their place than you did to keep women in their place. Warren Farrell powerful men sex Men are often a lot less vindictive than women are, because we are rejected constantly every day. Warren Farrell vindictive rejected men In America and in most of the industrialized world, men are coming to be thought of by feminists in very much the same way that Jews were thought of by early Nazis. The comparison is overwhelmingly scary. Warren Farrell feminist men america It evolved from my experience in the fifties, growing up during the McCarthy era, and hearing a lot of assumptions that America was wonderful and Communism was terrible. Warren Farrell hearing growing-up america A shared choice movement sees the fetus as the genes of a woman and the genes of a man; the flesh of the woman, the flesh of the man; the bone of a woman, the bone of a man; the responsibility of a woman, the responsibility of a man; the rights of a woman, the rights of a man. It desires a transition to equality. Warren Farrell responsibility rights men Just as women needed the help of the law to enter the workplace in the 20th century, men will need the help of the law to love their children in the 21st century. Warren Farrell law men children When a government requires a man to support a child he was tricked into creating, that government subsidizes fraud. No. It is worse than that: It subsidizes the woman using a man's body for 18-21 years without his consent. Warren Farrell men children years When we suggest that men are at the top because men discriminate, we miss the point. Men are at the top of the work hierarchy because work has been primarily men's responsibility. Warren Farrell responsibility missing men The less a man is willing to give up a sex object, the more he'll be trapped into becoming a success object. Warren Farrell giving-up men sex For me, the massiveness of what I don't know is one way I experience God. It creates in me a feeling of humility and a sense of gratitude. Warren Farrell gratitude humility feelings I feel awed by the mystery of being both so finite and yet so infinite, so much and so little, so conscious and yet, so coincidental. Warren Farrell mystery infinite littles In a sense, sexual harassment lawsuits are just the latest version of the female selection process allowing her to select for men who care enough for her to put their career at risk; who have enough finesse to initiate without becoming a jerk and enough guts to initiate despite a potential lawsuit. In the past, though, the process of his overcoming her barriers was called 'courtship.' Now it is called either 'courtship' or 'sexual harassment'. Warren Farrell careers men past Sexual harassment legislation feels unfair to men because if they sued over an ethnic joke, or over a woman discussing pornography or asking them out, they'd be laughed out of the company. Warren Farrell unfair asking men So while in men's magazines success is a power tool to get sex and love, and therefore the look of success is crucial, in women's magazines love and sex are power tools to get success and therefore both the look of love and the sexual tease/promise are crucial. Warren Farrell men sex promise In the case of a man and a woman [accused of commiting a crime together], both will often agree to the man taking the rap despite the man being more likely to receive a longer sentence and more likely to be raped in prison. If blacks were agreeing to do that for whites, the black community would be smart enough to call that 'learned subservience.' Warren Farrell smart rap men
