When you let someone else win an argument, often you both end up winners. Richard Carlson More Quotes by Richard Carlson More Quotes From Richard Carlson The trick is to be grateful when your mood is high and graceful when it is low. Richard Carlson mood grateful lows The ill effects of thought come about when we forget that thought is a function of our consciousness.. an ability that we as human beings have. We are the producers of our own thinking. Richard Carlson self-help consciousness thinking The next time you find yourself in an argument, rather than defend your position, see if you can see the other point of view first. Richard Carlson stress witty funny People who live the most fulfilling lives are the ones who are always rejoicing at what they have. Richard Carlson thankful thank-you happiness It's the recognition that other people's problems, their pain and frustrations, are every bit as real as our own - often far worse. In recognizing this fact and trying to offer some assistance, we open our hearts and greatly enhance our sense of gratitude. Richard Carlson gratitude pain real People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar. Thich Nhat Hanh If you gathered up all the fearful thoughts that exist in the mind of the average person, looked at them objectively, and tried to decide just how much good they provided that person, you would see that not some but all fearful thoughts are useless. They do no good. Zero. They interfere with dreams, hopes, desire and progress. Richard Carlson zero dream letting-go When your goal is to build people up, to make them feel better, to share in their joy, you too reap the rewards of their positive feelings. The next time you have the chance to correct someone, even if their facts are a little off, resist the temptation. Instead, ask yourself, "What do I really want out of this interaction?" Chances are, what you want is a peaceful interaction where all parties leave feeling good. Each time you resist 'being right,' and instead choose kindness, you'll notice a peaceful feeling within. Richard Carlson party self-esteem kindness The first step to becoming a more peaceful person is to have the humility to admit that, in most cases, you're creating your own emergencies. Life will usually go on if things don't go according to plan. It's helpful to keep reminding yourself and repeating the sentence, "Life isn't an emergency". Richard Carlson peaceful creating humility If someone throws you the ball, you don't have to catch it. Richard Carlson balls choices ifs Rather than being afraid to ask for help, remember this: When you ask someone to help you, you are actually doing them a tremendous favor by giving them an opportunity to feel needed. Richard Carlson helping-others opportunity giving It seems that we have it backward in our society. We tend to look up to people who are under a great deal of stress, who can handle loads of stress, and those who are under a great deal of pressure. Richard Carlson stress life people Wholeness or health is our natural state. The nature of healing involves removing obstructions to this natural state and bringing individuals into alignment with themselves and their world. Free of these obstructions, an individual's innate intelligence and self-regulating capabilties will guide him toward a state of well being. Richard Carlson self healing world Make living your life with absolute integrity and kindness your first priority. Richard Carlson priorities kindness integrity Nothing helps us build our perspective more than developing compassion for others. Compassion is a sympathetic feeling. It involves the willingness to put yourself in someone else's shoes, to take the focus off yourself and to imagine what it's like to be in someone else's predicament, and simultaneously, to feel love for that person. It's the recognition that other people's problems, their pain and frustrations, are every bit as real as our own-often far worse. In recognizing this fact and trying to offer some assistance, we open our own hearts and greatly enhance our sense of gratitude. Richard Carlson gratitude pain real Retirement can and will be a glorious time in your life. You'll love the freedom and ability to try new things. It's a new phase of life; a chance to be a beginner again. Richard Carlson beginners trying retirement You can't have a better past. Richard Carlson sadness past Noone knows exactly where thought comes from, but it can be said that thought comes from the same place as whatever it is that beats our heart.. it comes from being alive. Richard Carlson heart life thinking Stress is nothing more than a socially acceptable form of mental illness. Richard Carlson stress relaxation inspirational Ask yourself this question, will this matter a year from now? Richard Carlson not-giving-up bad-ass letting-go Every day, tell at least one person something you like, admire, or appreciate about them. Richard Carlson appreciate appreciation inspirational
