We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. Tom Robbins More Quotes by Tom Robbins More Quotes From Tom Robbins When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on - series polygamy - until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimension to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter. Tom Robbins wedding love relationship You should never hesitate to trade your cow for a handful of magic beans. Tom Robbins anxiety magic inspiration Disbelief in magic can force a poor soul into believing in government and business. 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Tom Robbins redneck white men there are two kinds of people in this world : those who believe there are two kinds of people in this world and those who are smart enough to know better. Tom Robbins smart two believe To emphasize the afterlife is to deny life. To concentrate on heaven is to create hell. Tom Robbins afterlife hell heaven Throughout most of our history, nothing - not flood, famine, plague, or new weapons - has endangered humanity one-tenth as much as the narcissistic ego, with its self-aggrandizing presumptions and its hell-hound spawn of fear and greed. Tom Robbins greed humanity self You risked your life, but what else have you ever risked? Have you risked disapproval? Have you ever risked economic security? Have you ever risked a belief? I see nothing particularly courageous about risking one's life. So you lose it, you go to your hero's heaven and everything is milk and honey 'til the end of time. Right? You get your reward and suffer no earthly consequences. That's not courage. Real courage is risking something that might force you to rethink your thoughts and suffer change and stretch consciousness. Real courage is risking one's clichés. Tom Robbins milk-and-honey real hero A mediocre failure is as insufferable as a mediocre success. Embrace failure! Seek it out. Learn to love it. That may be the only way any of us will ever be free. Tom Robbins still-life-with-woodpecker may way The only authority I respect is the one that causes butterflies to fly south in fall and north in springtime. Tom Robbins butterfly causes fall Of the Seven Dwarfs, the only one who shaved was Dopey. That should tell us something about the wisdom of shaving. Tom Robbins shaving seven should We're our own dragons as well as our own heroes, and we have to rescue ourselves from ourselves. Tom Robbins hero healing funny The bottom line is that (a) people are never perfect, but love can be, (b) that is the one and only way that the mediocre and the vile can be transformed, and (c) doing that makes it that. Loving makes love. Loving makes itself. We waste time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love. Wouldn't that be the way to make love stay? Tom Robbins creating perfect people Our similarities bring us to a common ground; Tom Robbins similarity differences common There is no such thing as a weird human being, It's just that some people require more understanding than others. Tom Robbins being-weird understanding people The unhappy person resents it when you try to cheer him up, because that means he has to stop dwelling on himself and start paying attention to the universe. Unhappiness is the ultimate form of self-indulgence. When you're unhappy, you get to pay a lot of attention to yourself. You get to take yourself oh so very seriously. Tom Robbins cheer dream love The world is a wonderfully weird place, consensual reality is significantly flawed, no institution can be trusted, certainty is a mirage, security a delusion, and the tyranny of the dull mind forever threatens -- but our lives are not as limited as we think they are, all things are possible, laughter is holier than piety, freedom is sweeter than fame, and in the end it's love and love alone that really matters. Tom Robbins laughter reality thinking There are only two mantras, yum and yuck, mine is yum. Tom Robbins still-life-with-woodpecker yuck two
